Monday, December 7, 2009

i stepped in it now!!!

As I have blogged before, I cheated on the wife. It has been over a year ago, but things have once again come up. No I haven't cheated again. It seems that the wife has just yet to let it go. I thought that things were going smooth and that we were back on track. We had talked in depth about her rejoining then military as soon as don't ask don't tell goes away, we had made other long term plans. It now comes out that she is not sure she wants to be here anymore. I am not sure how to handle this or what to do I want this to work, but not sure where to go or how to fix it, or if it can be fixed. I guess that it's up to her. so i just have to wait and see.

11 comments:

Ang said...

Hang in there (((hugs))) my thoughts are with you guys through this time.

LilliGirl said...

I'm so sorry - That kind of stuff is so hard. I hope you all make it through unscathed.

aneke said...

Oh, this is hard.

I'm sorry.

Margo said...

Thinking about you.

kimber p said...

{{{{S}}}}

Be good to yourself. No matter what you've done, if you've tried your best to make it right and to improve upon what went wrong that made you stray in the first place, then you can go to sleep with a clear conscience.

Don't beat yourself up--the person I met last Tues deserves nothing but the best and to be loved wholeheartedly. :) You don't deserve anything less....

CJ said...

I am so sorry. This isn't an easy place to be in, for either of you. I wish you both the best in working this out together and individually.

Jude said...

Oh man, I hate to hear this kind of shit...hope you two can really work things out. Thinking of you both.

lesbo said...

thinking of you both.

FemmeFairyGodmother said...

(((((Small Town Dyke)))) I'm sorry, sweetie.

small town dyke said...

you guys are amazing, this has taught me just how great this group of people are.

Camlin said...

I just caught up with my blog reading today...I'm so sorry!

Big northern hugs coming your way.