the red dress

So the first weekend in June the wife and I are attending her best friends wedding. It is a formal catholic wedding. The wife picked a dress for me to wear that she thought was cute and sexy. It's red low cut and very femme, 50's femme sexy. I am just hoping that I can pull this off. This is the first time that I will be meeting most of the people that the wife was in the Air Force with and I am excited! The little red dress is just one of my motivating factors for going to the gym every morning. Once the wedding is over I will have to find another motivator, but until then the dress is working just fine.

the gym.

so the wife and I joined our local community center gym about three weeks ago. I have been working out 5or 6 times a week. I have to say that I love it!!!! I have gotten so adictted to the feeling I get after and hour in the tredmill an 30 mins with the weights that if I had the time I would probelby go twice a day. Now here is the funny part. I mentioned to my friend the other day that I loved going to the gym. I don't know what I expected from her , nothing really but the reaction that I got shocked me. She said well your just like K, taking time away from your kids just to workout. I just looked at her. I mean I go to the gym before work and it's while the kids are in school, or we all go to the gym and walk the indoor track toghether I don't take any time from my kids, and what if I did give myself 90 mins to get healty and in a good state of mind would that be so bad? I guess that I should consider the source of this comment it was from a friend that got mad at me when I decided to lose weight before and lost 150 pounds. I have since put about 50 back on and I want to get rid of it again so I guess she will be mad again, oh well I have to do what is good for me and my family not her. It just surprised me she was so willing to put me down for a good habit. It makes me wonder what she would say if I told her I was going to start smoking crack??