Monday, April 6, 2009

3 years and counting!

So on Wednesday the wife and I will be officially commitment ceremonied to each other for 3 years. My question to the blog world is do I have to do those stupid traditional anniversary gifts or does the gay world get a pass on the lame gifts?? I hope we get a pass, because I got her a neat willow tree angel thing. I just love these things they have several that are of two women together. I am sure that they are suppose to be sister, friends, or mother daughter but they don't have those specific titles. So I just pretend they are whatever I need them to be. this anniversary we will be coloring Easter eggs because the older two go to there donor I mean fathers this weekend. They are both rather pissy about it. Oh yeah I forgot to tell ya all he is taking me back to court. He wants to lower his support. Thinks he is paying to much for them???? WTF umm you have them maybe 8 days a month how do you figure you pay to much, but I bloggress We will have a great family night and color lots and lots of eggs. I just hope that my kitchen survives baby S and the egg dye. Just in case I need it anyone know how to get egg dye off of stuff?


Propane Amy said...

I have no clue about the gift thing. Usually i give whatever the hell i want...LOL I've always been big on anniversaries even though i haven't celebrated one in years.

Jude said...

Congrats on the three year anniversary! Wishing you two many, many more.
I never did the traditional gift...I always said my Honey was too special for the traditional stuff. Your angel sounds so much better.

With the cost of living increase, wouldn't it be funny if your X had to pay more?

Anyway, have a wonderful Wednesday celebration.

LilliGirl said...

I don't think anyone, gat or otherwise, has to do the traditional gifting. We should all do what feels right.

Check out the state calculator online...then you'll ahve good idea of where the child support falls on the spectrum. I have leverged it to keep us out of court and say "see I am nice. and reasonable." - gave us a benchmark for fair negotiating.

Monkey Outlaw said...

WOW congrats on the three yr mark! I agree, I don't get gifts for Princess on ours, we do exchange cards and go out to eat ... but the anniversary sex is AWESOME!