tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6045463478822327725.post7055689437209147827..comments2023-06-21T07:04:08.166-04:00Comments on small town dyke.: the childrensmall town dykehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/09840067144266971548noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6045463478822327725.post-40055482611452741532009-03-05T20:37:00.000-05:002009-03-05T20:37:00.000-05:00I have dogs...and there's good reason. I'm clueles...I have dogs...and there's good reason. I'm clueless about kids. <BR/><BR/>Wishing you the best in a tough situation.<BR/><BR/>Looks as though you have The Butch Mafia at your disposal! ;)Real Live Lesbianhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09272384473977144125noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6045463478822327725.post-84289743084480179012009-03-05T03:54:00.000-05:002009-03-05T03:54:00.000-05:00We went through that with my oldest and her grandm...We went through that with my oldest and her grandmother. The woman took me to court and VA believes in Grandparent's rights. I think it started around age 10 or 11 for us. <BR/><BR/>I talked to her directly explaining that C was wanting to come less because she wanted to spend time with her friends and was having a hard time with the schedule disruptions. I said I had nothing to do with it but hoped she would understand that C did not want to come as often. Then the 2 of them talked. She made it ok for C to choose sometimes. That gave C the freedom and the courage to speak up when she did not want to go and I did not make her. It was rough but everyone got through it. <BR/>Now she only sees her on holidays and while her Grandma doesn't like it, she's 19 now so I don't have to be involved. I reccomend you talk to him with your kids blessing and then be there to help them talk to him. That's a very hard subject for kids to deal with on their own.LilliGirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09367991827983761994noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6045463478822327725.post-889339735126038292009-03-05T01:17:00.000-05:002009-03-05T01:17:00.000-05:00Hey, and I've got Jersey connections we can do a d...Hey, and I've got Jersey connections we can do a double team.<BR/><BR/>That situation really sucks, ya got a feel for your kids being in that awkward situation. Hope things work out soon for you and for them.<BR/><BR/>Dawg's got it right though. Geezzz, and she didn't know what to do with a 8YO.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6045463478822327725.post-26389919917107681002009-03-04T22:04:00.000-05:002009-03-04T22:04:00.000-05:00Dawg thanks so much, I may give you a shout if I n...Dawg thanks so much, I may give you a shout if I need the mafia bithces ;)small town dykehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09840067144266971548noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6045463478822327725.post-81258123573245104042009-03-04T21:44:00.000-05:002009-03-04T21:44:00.000-05:00Tough situation. The problem with abruptly stoppin...Tough situation. <BR/>The problem with abruptly stopping the visitation with the father makes you at fault and in serious shit IF the father took you to court.<BR/>Taking him back to court requires reason aside from your kids hating it there.<BR/>I would talk to him, remind him he has a new family which requires more of his attention and the kids aren't happy. Put the kids and their safety first.<BR/>If needed I can arrange for my mafia bitches to help out :)DawgDykehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11535378537721124297noreply@blogger.com